Ok, let’s take the cat out of the bag. “Devs, who is that guy your with on your facebook cover photo?” “Who is he Devs? Why do I always see you guys together?” Those are just some of the most frequently asked questions I get everyday. Yes, same questions, different wordings, different people everyday. I don’t know and I don’t understand what is so controversial about it. Other people do it, use their couples picture as their facebook cover photo or primary picture. Who cares?! It’s just a picture for God’s sake! Let it be! But anyways, this blog is not about my facebook page it’s about the man (yes, he is a MAN) I’m with in the photos. Maybe it’s about time to answer some questions. I mean serious answers (LOL). The man in the photos is the man I call #HAPPINESS. I posted our photos in my last blog. We’ve been together for almost 3 years. Yes, he is my boyfirend. He’s actually more than just that. He is my bestfriend, my worst enemy, my worst critic, my biggest fan, my baby, my nurse, my everything. “Are you guys have any plans of getting married?” The answer is amassive YES! We’ve talked about it, infact, we always talk about it and we are slowly slowly working on it. Our situation is very complicatdd. We have issues about family and religion, so yes,we can’t just walk inside the chapel and get married. So many things need to be straightened out before I can walk down the isle and be married to the man I love. You are so hopefull Devs, what made you so sure that he will marry you? He said he will but what makes you so sure thag he will? Why do you trust his words so much?well, lime what I have said earlier, we have been together for more than 2 years and in that 2 years, I have learned to trust his words. I may not trust him but I trust his words. He is not always telling the truth, but if you know him like I do, you will know when he is lying and when he is not. You will know if he is just trying to comfort you with his words and when he is being sincere about everything. Noms is Noms. Nothing more, nothing less. He is far from society’sidea or Mr.Right / boyfriend material / father material / ideal man / batman /superman / spiderman / whatever man! Honestly, I don’t think his profile fits any of those idea of a perfect guy, it is just so…idealistic. My Noms is the kind of guy most girls would despise when it comes to matters of the heart or emotions. I’m telling you, talking to him about emotions is like talking to the wall. No use! But why do I love thee? I love him because he is realistic. He is mean, insensitive about my emotions and overly sensitive about his. But, come to think of it, aren’t we all insensitive about other people’s emotions and overly sensitive about ours? Whatever, all I know is that my boyfriend is an ass and I love him inspite of him being a massive pain in the butt! Change topic shall we.
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“To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, ’till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.”
Now who does not know this famous wedding vow?
This my love is my vow to thee. So everytime you would wonder why I am still here after everything that has happened,why I stayed. Try to remember this, try to remember our prayer and the vow we made on our very first devotional prayer. Try to remember so you will learn to u derstand my reasons andso that you will be reminded why you should be with me, why you should stay with me.
Now that was cheesy. Next page!
If you decide to keep someone whose main goal in your relationship is to please you, satisfy all your egoistic needs and earthly desires is plain selfish and stupid. If I am to choose between my Happiness and Mr.Perfect, i would gladly choose my happiness. Why? Well, i am not asking for a perfect guy, if my partner is perfect then he will just make me miss not-so-perfect (LOL). I’d rather have an ass man who keeps me grounded, it’s a personal choice. All the shit I have been through with my man made/makes me appreciate life and all it’s hoolabaloos. i just hope it’sthe same thing for him.
Babe, do you love me more now?
haha, i got cheese all over the place! Sorry. Enough of this cheesyness. All that cheese sticks for breakfast made me go so cheesy today. Cheese, sorry. LOL.
Sudden death. I tore the pages. No proper ending. Some parts missing. Forgive me. I love you.
WE have no ending.